The reason behind...

When I met with my friends last week, we were comparing each other bodies.... The other have gain weight a bit... not too much, but just a bit... While me and one of my friend, has finally reduced it... But this friend of mine is sooo thin so I asked her, is she okay or whether she just recovering from her illness or something....

She smiled and said that she has two reasons for reducing her weight. First, a guy insulted her saying that she looks like ladies with children (this guy was introduced to her by a friend, in a hope they could build a relationship ... which the result is...not that kind of relationship in the end anyway). She was so angry about his comment (she found out from somebody else) and have been asking us was she really that fat? The second was, her vicious manager asked her whether she was secretly having a pregnancy without a husband.... Well, the last part I think it will be sufficient enough to drive people reducing her weight .... But probably, not... Many people have thought of me as a mother of children for so many times... still not able to force me to reduce my weight... I guess I am just too lazy to do that....

So, I think.... there is always something that will triggered us to do something that previously we were too lazy to do.... A compliment or sometimes a terrible insult could drive us to do something positive that .... yeah might chance our life...

Now I can understand, why ... long time ago, Sean Connery say thanks not only to his friends and colleagues, but also to his enemies... when he received an OSCAR. Often, the people that you do not like also contribute something to boost your energy in doing something great.... Though again, it is up to us to use that kind of boost for our own benefit....