Forward Friends

Well, the above title is just something I create for this situation.

A few years ago, I have to make confirmation on transaction by clients and to do that, I need to contact any person who in charge with that matter from another company. One of them named: Sandra. After a few more personal chit chat, we arrange a meeting for the first time and she said she will bring her colleague with her. Another woman called Leticia. It turn out, Leticia knew my friend in High School so we sort of connected in our conversation. Later on, I lost contact with Sandra as she moved to another country but I still keep the friendship with Leticia. It happens several times to me as well. Sometimes I introduce my friend with new friend, and eventually they becoming closer to each other compare with me. Some of them even just dissapeared from my life. Just like Sandra and me.

Isn't funny the way you got your close friends to your previous close friends but eventually you become close with the new up to now and not with the old one?

In the past, I used to feel sad because of that. I mean, the reason I introduce my friend to the other to have bigger community on something. Not loosing them for eternity. When I was in High School I have this two close friends but they are from different classes. When we are in out last year in high school, we got to be in the same class, so I introduce them to one another. Eventually, they started to go out without me, doing activitites together excluding me. I was sad, but wondering do I really want to stick around them any longer? As when they are together, they talked about they boyfriends all the time which for that I have nothing in common... So nowadays, I think... well, perhaps those two are not meant to be my friends and maybe I should just let go something that does not want to be around with me anymore. Maybe we are actually have little in common, but they are match to each other. So why I should be interrupting?

I think it does not matter how you get your friend or how you loose it... Friends means someone who can fill in the blanks inside as we are to them... If they are not meant to be, then they are just your seasonal friends... Just cherish the moments and enjoy the time being with them:)

Do I make any sense?